: Whose Friend?
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Approach:  Station Level: Year 4 and year 8 
Focus: Friendship. 
Resources: Illustration in task book.
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Questions/instructions:

Imagine that you have this problem:

The person you want to have as your best friend doesn’t want you as a best friend. You are very unhappy about this.


% responses
2002 ('98)
y4
y8
1. Write down the ways that you might deal with this problem.    
Ways to deal with problem:







accept person does not want to be your friend (get over it)
16 (18)
30 (30)
decide to ignore person
11 (7)
6 (12)
talk to friend, try to find out what is wrong
22 (20)
36 (33)
get help/advice from someone else
10 (12)
11 (12)
change behaviour to suit friend
6 (2)
6 (10)
try to change friend’s views
20 (32)
13 (28)
negotiate compromise
3 (2)
4 (3)
find new best friend
27 (20)
51 (41)
How well has the problem been addressed?
very well
1 (0)
8 (8)
well
12 (7)
29 (32)
moderately well
48 (60)
48 (48)
poorly
39 (33)
15 (12)
2. Who are some people who might be able to help you with this problem?

3. Draw a ring around the person in answer 2 who you think would be the most helpful.

4. Why do you think this person would be the most helpful?
   
Most helpful person:


parents/whanau
37 (52)
43 (46)
siblings
4 (0)
3 (5)
teacher/principal
27 (18)
10 (8)
health professional
0 (0)
5 (3)
friends/peers
22 (25)
32 (31)
other adults
3 (1)
2 (2)
other/none
7 (4)
5 (5)
Explanation:

strong
12 (14)
30 (26)
moderate
46 (49)
52 (60)
weak
42 (37)
18 (14)
 
Total score:




5
1 (0)
6 (2)
4
3 (2)
13 (21)
3
12 (9)
26 (20)
2
28 (45)
34 (39)
1
35 (26)
16 (16)
0
21 (18)
5 (2)
Commentary
Year 8 students were more inclined than year 4 students to find a new best friend, and less inclined to regard school staff as likely to be most helpful with their problem. There was little change between 1998 and 2002.
 
 
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