Approach: Station |
Level:
Year 4
and year 8
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Focus:
Friendship.
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Resources:
Illustration
in task book. |
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220KB |
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Questions/instructions:
Imagine
that you have this problem:
The person you want to have as your best friend doesn’t want
you as a best friend. You are very unhappy about this. |
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%
responses
2002 ('98) |
y4
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y8 |
1.
Write down the ways that you might deal with this problem. |
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Ways
to deal with problem:
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accept
person does not want to be your friend (get over it) |
16
(18) |
30
(30) |
decide
to ignore person |
11
(7) |
6
(12) |
talk
to friend, try to find out what is wrong |
22
(20) |
36
(33) |
get
help/advice from someone else |
10
(12) |
11
(12) |
change
behaviour to suit friend |
6
(2) |
6
(10) |
try
to change friend’s views |
20
(32) |
13
(28) |
negotiate
compromise |
3
(2) |
4
(3) |
find
new best friend |
27
(20) |
51
(41) |
How
well has the problem been addressed?
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very
well |
1
(0) |
8
(8) |
well
|
12
(7) |
29
(32) |
moderately
well |
48
(60) |
48
(48) |
poorly
|
39
(33) |
15
(12) |
2.
Who are some people who might be able to help you with this problem?
3. Draw a ring around the person in answer 2 who you think would be the
most helpful.
4. Why do you think this person would be the most helpful? |
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Most
helpful person:
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parents/whanau
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37
(52) |
43
(46) |
siblings
|
4
(0) |
3
(5) |
teacher/principal
|
27
(18) |
10
(8) |
health
professional |
0
(0) |
5
(3) |
friends/peers
|
22
(25) |
32
(31) |
other
adults |
3
(1) |
2
(2) |
other/none
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7
(4) |
5
(5) |
Explanation:
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strong
|
12
(14) |
30
(26) |
moderate
|
46
(49) |
52
(60) |
weak
|
42
(37) |
18
(14) |
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Total
score:
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5
|
1
(0) |
6
(2) |
4
|
3
(2) |
13
(21) |
3
|
12
(9) |
26 (20) |
2
|
28
(45) |
34
(39) |
1
|
35
(26) |
16
(16) |
0
|
21
(18) |
5
(2) |
Commentary
Year 8 students were more inclined than year 4 students to find a new
best friend, and less inclined to regard school staff as likely to be
most helpful with their problem. There was little change between 1998
and 2002. |